The Salisbury community mourns the passing of Judy Shoaf McLaughlin, who peacefully departed this world on September 28, 2025, at The Lutheran Home at Trinity Oaks. At 83 years old, she leaves behind a remarkable legacy that touched countless lives throughout her decades of service and devotion. Her passing marks the end of an era for those who knew her as a dedicated church member, loving family matriarch, and respected community figure.
Early life and educational foundation in Salisbury
Born on February 2, 1942, in Salisbury, North Carolina, Judy Shoaf grew up as the daughter of Richard Lee Shoaf and Annie Marie Kepley. Her formative years were spent in the heart of Rowan County, where she developed the values and character that would define her entire life. The strong foundation provided by her parents instilled in her a deep sense of community responsibility and faith.
Her academic journey culminated with graduation from West Rowan High School in 1960, where she was part of a distinguished class that would go on to contribute significantly to the local community. During these formative years, she demonstrated the leadership qualities and compassionate nature that would become her hallmarks. The friendships and connections she made during high school remained important throughout her life.
The educational experience at West Rowan shaped her worldview and prepared her for the challenges ahead. Her time there coincided with a period of growth in Salisbury, much like the evolution seen in local businesses such as K J Cole Ltd’s sixty-year journey serving the community. These shared experiences of growth and change would characterize her generation’s contribution to the area.
Professional career and family commitment
Judy’s professional life centered around her role as an administrative assistant with Hoechst Celanese, where she demonstrated the same dedication and attention to detail that characterized all aspects of her life. Her work ethic and reliability made her a valued team member, earning respect from colleagues and supervisors alike. The skills she developed in this position reflected her natural organizational abilities and interpersonal strengths.
Her marriage to Onlie Graham McLaughlin brought great joy and partnership to her life. Together, they built a loving home and welcomed their daughter, Tracey McLaughlin Motley, who became the center of their world. The family unit they created embodied the values of love, support, and mutual respect that Judy held dear throughout her life.
The McLaughlin household was known for its warmth and hospitality, welcoming extended family and friends with open arms. Her relationship with her son-in-law Tommy and her sister Carol Smith demonstrated the importance she placed on maintaining strong family bonds. These relationships provided her with continuous sources of joy and purpose.
| Family Role | Name | Relationship |
|---|---|---|
| Daughter | Tracey McLaughlin Motley | Primary survivor |
| Son-in-law | Tommy Motley | Spouse of daughter |
| Sister | Carol Smith | Surviving sibling |
Spiritual devotion and church leadership at St. Matthew’s Episcopal
St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church served as the spiritual cornerstone of Judy’s life, where she dedicated herself to numerous ministries spanning several decades. Her involvement went far beyond mere attendance, encompassing multiple leadership roles that demonstrated her commitment to faith and community service. As a lifelong member, she witnessed and contributed to the church’s evolution and growth.
Her musical talents found expression through organ playing and choir participation, bringing joy and worship to countless Sunday services and special occasions. These musical contributions created lasting memories for fellow parishioners and established her as an integral part of the church’s worship experience. Her voice and instrumental skills enhanced the spiritual atmosphere that many associate with their most meaningful religious moments.
The role of Sunday school teacher allowed her to share her faith with younger generations, passing on valuable lessons and spiritual guidance. Her teaching style combined patience with genuine care, helping students develop their own relationships with faith. Additionally, her service as a lay Eucharist minister demonstrated her deep theological understanding and commitment to serving others in their spiritual journey.
Her church involvement included :
- Musical ministry through organ playing and choir participation
- Educational leadership as Sunday school teacher
- Sacramental service as lay Eucharist minister
- Community outreach through various church programs
- Worship leadership in multiple capacities
Memorial arrangements and lasting remembrance
The memorial services for Judy McLaughlin will take place at Summersett Funeral Home, reflecting the family’s desire to honor her memory in a meaningful way. The schedule includes a visitation period from 12 :00 PM to 1 :00 PM on October 2, 2025, allowing friends and community members to pay their respects and share memories with the family.
The funeral service will commence at 1 :00 PM in Summersett Memorial Chapel, providing an appropriate setting for celebrating her life and legacy. Following the service, burial will take place at Rowan Memorial Park cemetery, where she will rest alongside other beloved community members. These arrangements ensure that those who knew her can participate in honoring her memory.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be directed to St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church at 4401 Statesville Boulevard, Salisbury, NC 28147. This request reflects Judy’s priorities and ensures that her legacy continues through the institution that meant so much to her. Summersett Funeral Home is coordinating all arrangements, with online condolences available through their website.
Her passing represents the loss of a generation that helped shape modern Salisbury through dedication, service, and unwavering faith. The memories she created and the lives she touched will continue to inspire those who follow in her footsteps.
